Couples Therapy: For married and unmarried couples (gay or straight), including premarital counseling, parenting therapy, and sex therapy. Couples Therapy will help you develop intimacy and compassion, improve expressive and listening skills during difficult diaologues, share and compromise, resolve and repair from conflict and face the many varied challenges for couples over their life span. During couples therapy I emphasize that though love is a wonderful feeling, it is not sufficient for good coupling; you have to put love into actions. Acts of love include:
Even for couples who function well, regular "check-in" couples therapy sessions can greatly enhance the quality of the relationship and prevent many marital pitfalls. Many couples begin therapy in crisis or very polarized, which therapy helps them resolve and rediscover their closeness and connection. In the process they realize that couples therapy is not only for resolving crisis; when times are good it serves as a safe space to enhance the relationship, engage in difficult dialogues, and grow the capacity for love, forgiveness, and deep connection.